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somewhere to vent about friendship.

the fade-out, the group chat drama, the friend who never says sorry. it counts. sit in a room with people who’ve been there.

some stories below are illustrative examples — real rooms are filling in.

5 public rooms · 127 sitting in now
family 9work 8romance 5friendship 5parenting 3money 2roommates 2stranger 10
example story
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Wistful Brazilian Fox2h

I babysat for free for a neighbor who dropped me the second she could

A woman in my building told me she'd just moved in, had nothing, was on hard times. So I helped. A lot. I babysat her son for free so she could job hunt. I shared almost my whole f…

WHAT HELPED
"if it were me, i'd write down what i actually want before the next conversation."
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Tired Polish Wolf2d

My best friend remembered a detail I mentioned once a year ago

A year ago, in passing, mid-rant about something else entirely, I mentioned that my grandmother used to make a specific kind of orange cake and that I'd never found the recipe afte…

WHAT HELPED
"i've been exactly here. the silence is the loudest part."
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Gentle Turkish Sparrow2d

My friend group has a chair we keep empty for the one who moved away

One of our group moved across the world for a job two years ago. The first dinner without her felt wrong, an obvious gap at the table. So somebody, half as a joke, set a place for …

WHAT HELPED
"i've been exactly here. the silence is the loudest part."
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Honest Kenyan Hawk3h

My friends planned my whole birthday around the one thing I never said I wanted

I'm bad at birthdays. I always say I don't want a fuss, and I mostly mean it, and my friends mostly respect it. This year they didn't. But they didn't throw a party. Instead, they'…

WHAT HELPED
"i've been exactly here. the silence is the loudest part."
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Gentle Vietnamese Sparrow2h

I almost ended a friendship over a misunderstanding that took 3 years to clear up

Three years ago my closest friend stopped replying to me, slowly at first, then completely. I assumed I'd done something, ran through every interaction, found nothing, and eventual…

WHAT HELPED
"if it were me, i'd write down what i actually want before the next conversation."
common questions
is shutap anonymous?
pseudonymous. you get a persistent alias like 🦉 Quiet Indonesian Owl. your real name, email, and identity stay permanently outside.
is it dramatic to vent about friends?
no. friend grief is real grief. the rooms here take it seriously without making you defend that it hurts.
is this therapy?
no. shutap is a peer-support and journaling community with an AI companion. it is not a medical, mental-health, or crisis service. in an emergency, call or text 988 (US) or visit findahelpline.com.
does it cost anything?
venting, being heard, and rooms are free. the full mirror — your patterns read as cards — requires a subscription.
what happens after i spill?
a room opens. people who’ve lived your exact thing sit in. over the next days the companion checks in — what happened next? that is your mirror starting to form.

say it here.

open a room. someone who's lived your exact friendship thing is around.

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