community guidelines

be real. be kind.

shutap works because people can be honest here without being exposed or attacked. keep it real, aim any edge at the situation, not the person who shared it.

don't post other people's private info.

no real names, addresses, workplaces, phone numbers, screenshots with identifying detail — about anyone, including yourself. write about your experience, not their identity.

no harassment, no hate.

no threats, no slurs, no pile-ons, no dogpiling on someone who shared.

nothing illegal.

and absolutely nothing sexual involving minors — ever. content or accounts here are removed and reported.

no impersonation, spam, or scraping.

be who you say you are (under your alias). don't pretend to be someone else. don't scrape the site, the companion, or other people's stories.

don't sell services or hand out professional advice.

share your own experience. do not pose as a therapist, doctor, or lawyer, or instruct anyone else what to do medically, legally, or financially.

report anything that breaks this.

use the report tools in the room or on a comment — a real person reviews every report.

We remove content and accounts that break these rules.